The menopause made my wifes sex drive disappear but she uses my erection problems as an excuse – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: IM having erection problems because I fear my wife is not attracted to me sexually.

Weve attempted sex only three times in the past five years successfully just once.

Weve been married very happily for 40 years but my wifes healthy sexual appetite has disappeared.

Im 65 and she is 62. She had hormone replacement therapy when she went through the menopause.

I love her but feel my erection problems suit her just fine.

DEIDRE SAYS: Sexual responsiveness can suffer from the menopause but the HRT should have helped.

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I doubt this crisis is wholly about that. Ask what changes you could make in your relationship as a whole, or in how you make love that would make her happier.

Then she may be more responsive to your needs.

My e-leaflet Love And The Mature Woman can help you both with this.

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